Parent to Parent

Research shows that parents have a powerful voice in their teen's lives and decisions. Teens who say their parents strongly disapprove of drinking and drug use are less likely to use.

Prevention Strategies for Parents

Maintaining open lines of communication is the single most important thing you can do to prevent your teen from using alcohol and other drugs. Proactive parenting means talking and being involved.

Start talking

• Have a conversation, not a lecture:

• Control your emotions. Talk with your child in a constructive manner.
• Offer acceptance and respect.

• Set clear-cut rules. Let teens know what is expected of them.
• Be aware and take appropriate actions.
• Recognize problem behavior and seek help when necessary.

Stay active and involved

• Know your teens friends and favorite hangouts
• Know the parents of your teen's friends
• Keep track of and support your teen's participation in school and community activities
• Do not allow un-chaperoned parties or other gatherings in your home
• Monitor alcohol use by adults in your home
• If you keep alcohol in your home, keep track of the supply

Tips

• Establish healthy beliefs and set clear standards
• Encourage healthy, creative activities
• Help your teen develop strong values
• Create a comfortable and supportive atmosphere at home
• Value you teens opinions and feelings
• Be a good role model in your own use of alcohol

Set Curfews

The following curfews are recommended by "Parents Empowered to Save Teens" (1999) for Friday and Saturday nights for parties, dates, and other planned activities:
7th grade - 10:00 pm      10th grade - 11:30 pm
8th grade - 10:30 pm      11th grade - 12:00 am
9th grade - 11:00 pm      12th grade - 12:00 am

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